May 31, 2026 — Episode #124
Jerry and Becky Drace begin a new series exploring what the Bible—apart from outside commentary—says specifically about marriage, starting with the core value of oneness.
They open by contrasting marriages sustained by feelings versus those sustained by choice and commitment, sharing the story of a woman who chose to stay married out of commitment even in an unfulfilling marriage. Turning to Ephesians 5:31-32, they discuss achieving oneness through communication, shared spiritual values, and unified decision-making, and Becky recounts the difficult months she spent surrendering to Jerry’s call into full-time evangelism early in their marriage. They emphasize the importance of seeking wise counsel from older, spiritually mature couples when spouses disagree, and Jerry recalls beginning full-time ministry with only one meeting booked and two hundred dollars in the bank. The couple examines Genesis 1:27’s charge to “be fruitful and multiply,” addressing both couples with children and couples without, and encourages investing in the lives of others regardless. Referencing Ecclesiastes and Psalm 133:1, they discuss how marriage priorities can shift after children arrive and the importance of returning to the original commitment between husband and wife. They close by reaffirming that successful marriages, contrary to popular culture’s portrayal, are built on daily choices rather than fleeting feelings, encouraging listeners to reaffirm their commitment to their spouse and children.
Topics discussed:
- Launching a new series on biblical core values of marriage
- Marriages sustained by choice and commitment rather than feelings alone
- Achieving “oneness” through communication and shared decision-making (Ephesians 5:31-32)
- Becky’s story of surrendering to Jerry’s call into full-time evangelism
- The value of seeking counsel from spiritually mature older couples
- Genesis 1:27 and being “fruitful,” with and without children
- Refocusing on the marriage relationship as priorities shift after children (Psalm 133:1)
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