June 14, 2026 — Episode #126

Jerry and Becky Drace welcome Lisa Reasons, director of adoption services at Birth Choice in Jackson, Tennessee, to open a series on the beautiful, biblical word “adoption.” Lisa shares her own story — adopted as a toddler, and later an adoptive mother herself to a son from South Korea — and explains how she came to lead Birth Choice’s new adoption agency.

The conversation moves between the practical (the different kinds of adoption: domestic, international, foster care, and embryo adoption) and the spiritual, grounded in Romans 8 and the idea of being adopted as “Abba Father’s” child. Lisa also opens up about the grief and healing process for birth mothers, and the importance of open adoption relationships.

Topics discussed:

• Introducing guest Lisa Reasons and Birth Choice’s new adoption agency (one of only six pregnancy-medical-clinic-plus-adoption-agency organizations in the U.S.)
• Lisa’s personal adoption story and her son’s adoption from South Korea
• Spiritual adoption — Romans 8:15, the meaning of “Abba Father”
• Different types of adoption: domestic, international, foster care, embryo adoption
• The realities birth mothers face and why “open adoption” matters
• The story of a couple whose birth mother changed her mind — and how that grief is handled
• Preview: next week’s episode continues the series

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June 7, 2026 — Episode #125

Content note: this episode includes discussion of emotional abuse within marriage and guidance for spouses navigating an abusive relationship.

Continuing their series on the biblical core values of marriage, Jerry and Becky Drace turn to the topic of submission, examining Ephesians 5:21-33 and clarifying that biblical submission is meant to be voluntary, not coerced.

They explain that a husband’s call to be the spiritual leader of the home only functions rightly when he himself submits to the lordship of Christ, and they share a story of a husband who demanded submission through control and meanness rather than love, discussing when a wife may need to seek help or leave an abusive situation. Becky recalls how their longtime family mentor modeled family devotions and taught their children to pray for Jerry by phone during his travels using a globe to locate him. The couple discusses the importance of fathers leading family Bible reading and prayer, drawing on Becky’s own experience growing up with a father who was a faithful “server” in church but not a spiritual leader at home. They also address how wives can pray for unbelieving or spiritually distant husbands rather than nagging them, citing Colossians 3:12 and 1 Corinthians 7:13-14, and offer parents and grandparents “red flag” indicators for evaluating whether a child’s romantic interest is spiritually grounded, such as whether he prays over a meal.

Topics discussed:

• Continuing the marriage series with the core value of submission (Ephesians 5:21-33)
• Biblical submission as voluntary, not coerced or authoritarian
• Recognizing and responding to emotional abuse in a marriage
• Fathers as spiritual leaders of the home versus being merely a “server”
• Praying for a spiritually distant or unbelieving spouse instead of nagging
• Their mentor’s globe prayer tradition for children while Jerry traveled
• Red flag indicators for evaluating a dating partner’s spiritual maturity

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May 31, 2026 — Episode #124

Jerry and Becky Drace begin a new series exploring what the Bible—apart from outside commentary—says specifically about marriage, starting with the core value of oneness.

They open by contrasting marriages sustained by feelings versus those sustained by choice and commitment, sharing the story of a woman who chose to stay married out of commitment even in an unfulfilling marriage. Turning to Ephesians 5:31-32, they discuss achieving oneness through communication, shared spiritual values, and unified decision-making, and Becky recounts the difficult months she spent surrendering to Jerry’s call into full-time evangelism early in their marriage. They emphasize the importance of seeking wise counsel from older, spiritually mature couples when spouses disagree, and Jerry recalls beginning full-time ministry with only one meeting booked and two hundred dollars in the bank. The couple examines Genesis 1:27’s charge to “be fruitful and multiply,” addressing both couples with children and couples without, and encourages investing in the lives of others regardless. Referencing Ecclesiastes and Psalm 133:1, they discuss how marriage priorities can shift after children arrive and the importance of returning to the original commitment between husband and wife. They close by reaffirming that successful marriages, contrary to popular culture’s portrayal, are built on daily choices rather than fleeting feelings, encouraging listeners to reaffirm their commitment to their spouse and children.

Topics discussed:

• Launching a new series on biblical core values of marriage
• Marriages sustained by choice and commitment rather than feelings alone
• Achieving “oneness” through communication and shared decision-making (Ephesians 5:31-32)
• Becky’s story of surrendering to Jerry’s call into full-time evangelism
• The value of seeking counsel from spiritually mature older couples
• Genesis 1:27 and being “fruitful,” with and without children
• Refocusing on the marriage relationship as priorities shift after children (Psalm 133:1)

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May 24, 2026 — Episode #123

Jerry and Becky Drace conclude their multi-week series on the observations of senior adulthood, moving through several more of Jerry’s life lessons before closing with an invitation to salvation.

They begin with observation sixteen, “your last words leave lasting impressions,” drawing on Luke 23:46 and Jerry’s memories of sitting at deathbeds during his pre-med years and later ministry, including the passing of family and close friends. They encourage listeners to write letters to grandchildren so wisdom endures in written form, not just spoken words. Citing Psalm 22:30-31, they discuss “planting trees you will never sit under,” emphasizing that faithful investment in children and grandchildren can shape generations never personally witnessed, illustrated by a story of two men whose spiritual legacies played out six generations later. The couple then addresses declining respect for the elderly, citing Leviticus 19:32, and shares a sobering story of a nursing-home veteran abandoned by his adult children for years, contrasted with a story of a great-grandmother raising her great-granddaughter in church. Becky and Jerry stress that respect must be earned, not demanded. The episode closes with their most direct evangelistic appeal of the series, based on Hebrews 3:15, urging listeners of any age who have never fully surrendered their lives to Jesus to do so, describing salvation as the most important decision anyone can make.

Topics discussed:

• “Your last words leave lasting impressions” and deathbed reflections (Luke 23:46)
• Writing letters or notes to grandchildren as a lasting legacy
• “Planting trees you will never sit under” — investing in future generations (Psalm 22:30-31)
• A multigenerational story of spiritual legacy spanning six generations
• Declining respect for the elderly in modern culture (Leviticus 19:32)
• A story of an elderly nursing-home veteran abandoned by his children
• A direct invitation to salvation and full surrender to Christ (Hebrews 3:15)

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May 17, 2026 — Episode #122

Jerry and Becky Drace continue their multi-week series of life observations drawn from decades of ministry and personal experience, focusing this week on lessons about relationships and family legacy.

They open with a story about a 99-year-old woman in Yazoo City, Mississippi, still driving and full of wisdom, as an example of aging with a positive outlook. Turning to Matthew 5:44, they discuss how love, not time, heals the scars of brokenness and betrayal, sharing a story of a man deeply wounded by fellow church members. They reflect on Job 40 and the humility of recognizing that someone is always wiser, encouraging listeners to glean from others’ wisdom rather than compete with it. Citing Proverbs 15:1, the couple discusses how a soft answer turns away wrath, illustrated by a story about their grandson Levi’s complaint that his teacher “speaks mean.” They also explore Proverbs 22:6, describing how the remembered voices of parents, whether harsh or encouraging, shape adult children for a lifetime, and share a moving story of a man in a Bible study who had never heard a kind word from his own father. The episode closes with reflections on Proverbs 17:6 and the unique legacy grandchildren represent, encouraging grandparents to use text messages and notes to pass on words of love and faith.

Topics discussed:

• Love as the healer of brokenness’s scars (Matthew 5:44, loving enemies)
• Recognizing that “there’s always someone smarter than you” (Job 40)
• The power of a soft answer to turn away wrath (Proverbs 15:1)
• How parents’ remembered voices shape children into adulthood (Proverbs 22:6)
• Grandchildren and the meaning of legacy (Proverbs 17:6)
• Encouraging text messages and notes as tools of encouragement across generations

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May 10, 2026 — Episode #121

In this Mother’s Day episode, Jerry and Becky Drace continue their series of observations on senior adulthood, sharing insights recorded in what Jerry calls his life-observation notebook.

The couple opens by wishing listeners a happy Mother’s Day before returning to observation seven: the discipline of prayer. Drawing on the ACTS model (adoration, confession, thanksgiving, supplication) and referencing devotional writer Watchman Nee’s concept of “sit, walk, stand,” they discuss how prayer begins with resting in God rather than making requests. They then explore the power of physical touch, citing Jesus’ healing miracles and workplace research on the impact of a hand on the shoulder alongside spoken praise. Turning to Psalm 23’s “valley of the shadow of death,” Jerry recalls walking the old Jericho road in Israel and explains the difference between the rod (protection) and staff (rescue), noting that valleys, unlike a dead end, always open into brighter ground. The couple also discusses how denying truth does not make it a lie, illustrated by a grandchild who challenged a teacher’s classroom statement, and closes with an extended discussion of forgiveness as the only antidote for revenge, including the story of a betrayed wife who found freedom by personally forgiving her unfaithful husband. Listeners are again invited to send in their own senior-adult life observations.

Topics discussed:

• ACTS model of prayer (adoration, confession, thanksgiving, supplication)
• The power of physical touch in relationships, citing Jesus’ ministry
• Psalm 23 and walking through “the valley of the shadow of death”
• Distinguishing between the rod and staff as symbols of protection and rescue
• Discerning truth versus falsehood, including a story about a grandchild in school
• Forgiveness as the antidote to revenge and holding grudges
• Listener invitation to share personal observations on senior adulthood

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May 3, 2026 — Episode #120

Jerry and Becky Drace launch a new series on senior adulthood (ages 65 and up), which they playfully suggest calling the “saint” stage of life, following their multi-week series on middle adulthood.

They reflect on milestones and favorite memories as a way of introducing the value of looking back over a long life, and they reference the recent nationwide public reading of Scripture from Genesis to Revelation in Washington, D.C. Jerry shares six personal observations from his 78 years of living: that a wise elderly person is worth more than a room full of experts (citing Job 12:12), that love fills the wrinkles of a long marriage with grace (Proverbs 31:30), that simply saying “have a blessed day” can open doors for sharing faith, that much can be learned from the honesty and openness of children, including the importance of leading children to Christ, that kindness “cancels the bad taste” of meanness, and that prayer is the hardest yet most rewarding spiritual discipline (James 5:16). Throughout, they emphasize the responsibility of grandparents to pass down biblical wisdom by texting scripture to grandchildren and modeling a consistent faith. They invite listeners to share their own life observations for future episodes.

Topics discussed:

• Defining senior adulthood (ages 65+) as the “saint” stage
• National Scripture-reading event from Genesis to Revelation
• Six life observations from 78 years of living
• Wisdom of elderly believers (Job 12:12)
• Enduring love in long marriages (Proverbs 31:30)
• Leading children to Christ and learning from their honesty
• Prayer as a rewarding spiritual discipline (James 5:16)

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April 26, 2026 — Episode #119

Wrapping up their series on middle adulthood, Jerry and Becky Drace explore the emotional and psychological side of a midlife crisis, including hormonal changes that affect mood and the temptation to evaluate one’s career and impact at 40, 45, or 50.

Jerry shares the story of an uncle who dreaded retirement and then died shortly after retiring, using it to illustrate his conviction that every believer can be a “kingdom person” no matter their vocation, comparing an astronaut’s mission to a mechanic’s or a surgeon’s. Becky recounts the story of a well-known Christian author and speaker who was paralyzed in a diving accident as a teenager, as an example of finding purpose despite physical limitation. The couple discusses empty nest syndrome as a major social change of this life stage, describing Becky’s own experience of redefining her sense of mission as their children left home, and they touch on changing friendships and the value of grief-support programs for those who lose a spouse. The episode closes with a review of common reasons people make midlife career changes, including poor work-life balance, burnout, toxic work environments, office politics, and industry shifts like AI replacing jobs, along with data showing wage growth often follows a career switch in one’s 40s and 50s. They preview a coming discussion on embracing change before moving into a new series on senior adulthood.

Topics discussed:

• Emotional and hormonal aspects of a midlife crisis
• Finding purpose in any vocation (“kingdom person”)
• A well-known example of finding purpose through hardship after paralysis
• Empty nest syndrome and its emotional impact
• Changing friendships and grief support after losing a spouse
• Reasons for midlife career changes (burnout, toxic environments, AI/industry shifts)
• Data on wage growth after a midlife career switch

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April 19, 2026 — Episode #118

In the third installment of their series on middle adulthood, Jerry and Becky Drace, recording on the campus of Union University in Jackson, Tennessee, revisit the physical and cognitive changes of ages 40 to 65 before focusing much of the episode on memory and dementia.

Prompted by a conversation with a physician friend, they walk through the recognized stages of cognitive decline, from no decline through very mild and mild cognitive impairment to the moderate stage, describing symptoms such as forgetting familiar objects, difficulty recalling names, losing track of current events, and trouble managing finances or travel. They share a well-known story about a famous scientist losing his train ticket as a lighthearted illustration, along with personal habits for stimulating memory, such as keeping a small notebook of names and details when meeting new people. Becky emphasizes that adult children may increasingly need to watch for these signs in aging parents and step in to help, even though the changing family member may not recognize or admit the decline. The couple also encourages parents and grandparents to help children memorize scripture, citing verses like Psalm 56:3 and Proverbs 31, and suggests using nightly group texts to share a Bible verse and words of encouragement with grandchildren. They close by recapping a recent Hope for the Home conference in Georgia and previewing further discussion of cognitive decline next week.

Topics discussed:

• Recap of middle adulthood physical and cognitive changes
• Stages of dementia, from no decline through moderate decline
• Recognizing memory-loss symptoms in aging parents
• A famous scientist’s train-ticket story and memory-stimulation tips
• Helping children and grandchildren memorize scripture by text
• Recap of a Hope for the Home conference in Georgia

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April 12, 2026 — Episode #117

Continuing their series on middle adulthood, Jerry and Becky Drace dig into the characteristics of a midlife crisis, describing it as a season when people reassess their lives, come to terms with their limitations, and confront regrets about the past.

Jerry shares a personal story about leading an elderly man to Christ after his heart surgery, and the man’s regret that he had not made that choice sooner. Becky reflects on choosing to prioritize her family over finishing college early, and later shares how going back to Union University in her 50s to complete her bachelor’s and master’s degrees in social work helped her overcome the “wish I had” mindset without regret. They discuss the value of mentoring younger people, and Becky recalls the death of a young pastor friend who died of cancer at 49, using his story to illustrate staying focused on Jesus through catastrophic illness. The episode also covers financial pressures common in midlife, including consumer debt and well-known personal-finance teaching, before turning to job-related stress, burnout, and toxic work environments as reasons people consider changing careers midlife. Listeners are encouraged to reach out with their own stories of crisis, financial struggle, or career change for future discussion. The show closes with a preview of continuing the career-change discussion the following week.

Topics discussed:

• Characteristics of a midlife crisis: reassessing life, limitations, regrets
• Story of leading a grandfather to Christ after heart surgery
• Becky’s decision to return to Union University for her degrees
• Coping with catastrophic illness through faith (a pastor friend’s cancer death)
• Financial stress, consumer debt, and popular personal-finance teaching
• Career burnout and toxic work environments as triggers for change

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