June 29, 2025 — Episode #76

Content note: this episode includes references to domestic abuse and a parent fearing the abduction of a child by an ex-spouse.

Jerry and Becky close out their two-and-a-half-month series on divorce with a look at the ripple effects it has on the whole family, and the mix of negative and positive changes that can follow.

They cite the statistic that the average marriage lasts about eight years before a first divorce, discuss why the “divorce” breakout session is often the least attended at their Hope for the Home conferences, and stress the importance of taking ownership rather than only assigning blame. They walk through negative adjustments — relocation, finances, career changes, physical and mental health, and social isolation — as well as positive outcomes people have shared, such as regaining self-esteem, finishing an education, or feeling relief from an abusive or spiritually restrictive marriage. They also discuss the correction from Malachi that God “hates divorce,” not divorced people, and remind listeners that grandparents raising grandchildren due to family breakdown is a growing reality.

Topics discussed:

• Statistics on the average length of a first marriage before divorce
• Taking personal ownership rather than only assigning blame
• Family, financial, and social adjustments after divorce
• Grandparents raising grandchildren due to family breakdown
• Malachi’s statement that God hates divorce, not divorced people
• Positive outcomes some people experience after divorce
• Protecting children during custody situations

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